Ancestral Healing Coaching
Transform the Patterns You Inherited. Reclaim the Power That’s Yours.
There are beliefs in your life that didn’t start with you. Patterns that repeat. Behaviors that feel automatic. Trauma that echoes across generations.
You may see it in addiction, anger, emotional withdrawal, uncontrollable laugher, always being the life of the party, uncommunicative, control, silence, abandonment, over-responsibility, or chronic fear. You may see it in family stories about war, immigration, poverty, survival, or service.
And you may be asking:
Why does this keep happening in my family?
Why do I carry this?
Where did this begin?
This is where ancestral healing begins.
What We Explore
In this coaching experience, we gently and strategically uncover the context behind:
- Family beliefs and inherited survival patterns
- Generational trauma and emotional imprints
- War trauma and veteran service history
- Unspoken family secrets and silences
- How ancestral experiences shaped your nervous system, relationships, and life choices
If you have veterans in your lineage — from World War I, World War II, Korea, Vietnam, or beyond — we can explore how military service and war trauma may still be shaping your family dynamics today.
The Tools We Use
This is not just mindset work. It’s investigative, emotional, and transformational.
We may use:
- Timelines – to map personal, family, and historical events
- Genograms – to visually trace patterns, trauma, and behaviors across generations
- Circle of Influence – my own tool to help you see the people, places, and things that influenced who you or an ancestor became
- Genealogy research – to uncover context, migration, loss, occupation, and survival stories
- Military records research – to understand veteran experiences and the impact of war
When you understand the story, you can change your relationship to it.
What Changes
Clients often experience:
- Relief from carrying what was never theirs
- Clarity around repeating relationship patterns
- Greater compassion for parents and grandparents
- New genealogy and military research paths
- Nervous system regulation and emotional release
- A stronger sense of identity and personal sovereignty
- The ability to consciously choose new behaviors
You are not here to unconsciously repeat your lineage.
You are here to transform it.
This Work Is For You If…
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You feel like you’re living out patterns you didn’t choose
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You descend from veterans or families impacted by war
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You’re the cycle breaker in your family
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You’ve done personal growth work but sense something deeper is at play
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You want both emotional healing and historical context
Your Next Step
Ancestral healing is not about blaming the past.
It’s about understanding it — so you can consciously choose your future.
If you’re ready to explore the beliefs, behaviors, and trauma in your lineage and transform what you carry, this coaching space is for you.
Apply now to begin your ancestral healing journey.
Coaching Clients Receive
All coaching clients receive the following:
- 20-30 minutes of pre-Zoom coaching investigation by Jennifer.
- Zoom replay of our session.
- Additional resources as needed.
Please note all sessions purchased have an expiration date.Â
1-hour Session
$125
Must be used within one month of purchase or you lose it
Purchase 1-hour sessionThree 1-hour sessions
$350 (save $50)
Must be used within two months of purchase or you lose it
Purchase Three 1-hour sessionsFive 1-hour sessions
$525 (save $100)
Must be used within two months of purchase or you lose it
Purchase Five 1-hour sessionsMeet Your Coach
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 Jennifer Holik
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More than 10 years ago, I developed a 2-part military research strategy that makes it possible to discover the story of any veteran from WWI through Vietnam — even if the records burned. This grew out of a journey I began nearly 30 years ago, guided by my military ancestors. What started as genealogy quickly expanded into a full military research, writing, and speaking business shared through the WWII Research & Writing Center and later, here at the Ancestral Souls Wisdom School.
My work is rooted in both fact and spirit. I’ve walked battlefields, stood at graves, and listened to the echoes of soldiers and families whose stories still long to be told. Living between Chicago and the Netherlands, I absorbed history, culture, and the weight of inherited war trauma. My own path through PTSD and ancestral healing deepened my ability to see repeating patterns, connect dots across generations, and help others uncover truths hidden beneath silence and loss.
At the Ancestral Souls Wisdom School and WWII Research & Writing Center, I bring together research and soul work, helping you not only recover your family’s military history but also transform the patterns and pain it left behind. This is where history, healing, and story meet.
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